Oh thank you so much, I was reading and responding some.
Well sense my brother passed away, my other living siblings got together with their families and took off to florida to be with my parents. But I was never asked to go. And when I called my parents to see why they didnt bother to invite me or even tell me they were going, my mother said, "Because you don't need to be here."
I can not tell you how heart broken and hurt I am, and have no where to turn. So I'm sitting here all day long tormenting myself knowing all of my entire family are together but I am not invited.And crying my days away for the most part, when I'm not sleeping.
I do thank each and everyone of you out here who showed you cared about ME threw this very sad and hard time of my life. I really do appreciate it alot, you have no idea how I thank you for it.
I dont know if I should be beside myself and be mad at my family, or just act like nothing has happened when they get back, or disown them completely. I know my brother who passed away would not be happy about how they are treating me.
But I'll let the LORD carry this burden for now, I am too weak and tired of dealing with it right now.
Again thank you all for careing about me in this time of MY greatest need.
***Edited By: peanutmypoodle on 9/30/2005 10:15:22 PM*** Reason: *
Thank you scout1 seriously though you are right. I didnt sleep much lastnight, thinking i should have waited longer to take more time for myself. But I needed a break from real life and wanted to read in here some.
You know I'm not here for pitty or anything like that, but I do appreciate all the support I have found in the people on this website and I thank you all for it.
I must've missed where you had posted what happened, peanut, this is the first I've heard of it and I just wanted to say that I'm so very sorry for your loss. You have a lot riding on your shoulders right now. Wish there was something I could do. Again, sorry for what has happened! Hope things work out with your family, only you can decide how you are going to handle them.
Peanut I just wanted to tell you that I am very sorry for my part in last night .I never meant to hurt your feelings. And I hope you will forgive me . My mother died in July and I do understand what your going thourgh right now . And NOthing anybody says really helps or it hasnt for me. My mom died of cancer what happened to your brother. Again I am very sorry.
That's not true There has to be a reason why they are treating her badly. One's family is important. Maybe if she evaluates her relationship with her family she can fix it. Thlynda, I told her not take it the wrong way and you are not helping.
Peanut..I just read your story and I am sorry about your loss. And I am sorry for how your family is treating...Big hugs...Peanut you have my email if you need to talk to someone.
Crazyboutdogs: Some families are just cruel..Its called being the black sheep. My hubby's family has not talked to him in 20 yrs. even when he calls. Some families need no reason to be mean to another member of their own family.
By the way peanut talks you can tell she has issues. Maybe it has isolated her family. During their time of loss maybe they did not want to deal with her issues; it's very possible. Peanut, if I were you I would see a psychiatrist. You will benefit from it greatly. If you can't fix your family problem at least you can fix your life. Either way you can't go wrong.
Crazyboutdogs I have had just about ENOUGH of your BS. All you do is try and sugar coat your insults, why don't you go see the drs you seem to think I need to see? I wish to GOD YOU would get lost! People like YOU are the ones with the issues! I am not going to answer your questions because I think I have told enough about my life here and quite frankly it is none of your business. Accually the reason why I am treated this way is very simple and nothing to be offended by, but it is still none of your business.
For the life of me I wish the mods would delete posts like YOURS!
Because clearly you are here to start a fight and try and hurt me again. Do us all a favor and get lost because you are clearly not wanted here.
Now if you will excuse me, I have to go cry over my beloved brother passing away again, on top of having to remember the BS words you just insulted me with!
I'm am so sick of YOU!
I am not coming back here!
***Edited By: peanutmypoodle on 10/1/2005 12:45:04 AM*** Reason: *
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I hope that you are given the strength you need to figure out things with your family. I can empathize with the way they are treating you, though the circumstances might not be the same as mine..my family tends to alienate one family member every so many months and it's been my turn lots of times. Spend lots of time with your fur friends because, no matter what, they always love you and they are so good about making you smile!
Sending lots of puppy kisses and hugs from our house to yours....
Crazy: Unless you are a thearipst then I think you over stepping your boundaries here. Peanut is Peanut most people no longer have a problem with her. So unless you have a medical degree then I think you need to step away from this.
Peanut I am sorry you have having to listen to this person in your time of loss. He obivious has no respect or manners IMO.
Until he/she produces a degree in Psychology...I'd ignore him/her. It's completely normal to grieve over the loss of a loved one. It's also completely normal to have family problems. Just because someone is grieving or has family problems doesn't mean they need to be drugged. For crying in the night....I'd be so stoned....but that's another story, and I'm sure most people you meet in day to day life could say the same thing! As far as being called abrasive...I've noticed that I've only ever been called abrasive by people who didn't like to hear the truth.
I usually don't get involved in the arguements and I don't usually "stick up" for people....but I just noticed that this thread was started out of concern for another member and ended up in an arguement where none was needed or solicited. What a shame...and I for one, LOVE the freedom of speech...but in the instance...those posts should be deleted. IMO