I understand where you're coming from. I was in that same place at one time and felt as you do only to see things change drastically and dramatically as if out of no where. If you wish to discuss this more, email me. If not, then good luck, no ill will.
None of my business, and when I get involved things magically turn to what a terrible person I am and how my dogs and website suck. However, I don't blame her Huron for deleting things she vented while she felt she was being attacked.
I know I have personally let things get way out of hand on a few threads. Said things I really didn't mean, or that we just out of anger and hurt from being insulted.
Honestly I really didn't register what the posts were really concerning from either side. Sounds like there is way way too much unknown history or what people think was said or what ever, for me to comment.
I just don't blame her for now wanting to keep up what was said in maybe anger. Not saying she is right or you are right. Honestly I don't know. Maybe it is all just a big miscommunication.
In order to have that happen, one must realize that once you have breeched someone's trust, you can not expect sunshine and roses all the time.
Speaking for THIS mod, I am all too human. I also have a life outside of this forum. I try to remain impartial and not take things personally.
The last attack which made children vunerable to something obscene was a point at which I stepped back. I have spent a couple of months merely watching the forum and logging in only to "moderate" rarely posting.
I also have breaking points which I TRY mightly to keep under control, not always succeeding. Deception, dishonesty and mistrust will always find of of my breaking points.
Sorry, off topic~just wanted to attempt a generalized clarification.