that is very sad, I think I value my dogs....my truck! more than she does her kids. I have a 11 day old at home. This is probably one of the most challenging things I have done.
Now with that all being said. If this women were a dog. I would not breed her, It is unatural for a female not to have maternal instincts. If any of you were reading my earilier posts.As for dads galvanting off to the pub. Hell, I have not even made it outside to throw the ball for the dogs!
Sometimes parenting is boring, sometimes it sucks. But it is one of those JOBS (job implying obligation) that requires you to be "on call". Now I do not see anything wrong with getting a "break", or a mama pampering herself everyonce in while.
But to leave the kids on a regular basis, because it is boring, or doesn't fit into your lifestyle is a form of neglect. I see know difference with her running off to get her highlights, than i do a mama with a crack addiciton running off to go get high.
Children need supervision from there mom! and dad! Nannies are not replacement parents, neither is the T.V.
She says somethnig about research, and young moms being drinkers.
There also has been research that disconnected parents often have children that are f-uped.
Somethings require a little more thought. I would have thought a 16 year old kid, who accidently got pregnant to think like this but not a 42 year old professional
WOW! I don't even think kids are nearly as "boring" as this woman claims and yet I figured I shouldn't have kids- and don't!
Why did she even have children if that's the way she felt. I think its horrible!
When I started seeing myself lose patience with other peoples kids that's when I decided I probably shouldn't have kids. Why bring them into this world if they are so useless to you-which even I don't think that! I just felt kids would be more work/money than I was willing to deal with. And to be honest I don't think I could handle a 2 yr olds tantrums! I really think this is sad. I really thought that mothers were more loving to their kids. They had a choice and then are unhappy with it?
I understand cartoons and such are boring but there is so much more you can do with a child. Reading, bike rides, walking, talking, play board games. Maybe I was wrong about myself- maybe I would be good with kids. Better than that witch.
I've always thought that women can physically have a child. However it doesn't mean that they will be a good parent. Meaning having those natural mothering instincts.
Those instincts that make us sacrifice our former lives.(LOL) Putting our children and their needs or wants first. I have three children ages 9, 10 and 11 yrs old. There have been times when I've woken up on a Saturday morning thinking I'd rather stay at home. Not wanting to go out and take them to some activity or have playdates at our home. But....I do and will until they say no or don't want to. That's my job as a Mum.
I feel pity for this women but I feel sadness for her children. I hope they will have no emotional side affects. As a result of her lack of parenting skills. I hope the father is not cut from the same cloth as she is!