Hi, Does anyone have any advice for dealing with a selfish, passive aggresive nutty sister in law. Im at my wits end and I am open to suggestions. Oh and we live together so avoiding her is almost impossible. Thanks
The very first thing I would suggest is not living together! Are you and hubby in her house or is she in yours? Whoever doesn't own the house needs to take immediate steps to get their own place, as a priority! Even just that alone might fix the relationship. Like I adore my mother, but as an adult, there is no way we would get along living in the same house, and I daresay it would even cause difficulties in my relationship with my husband.
We share an apartment together. She was in a rough sisuation with her last roomate( my firtst clue) and we needed to move to a place that would let us have our dog. It seemed like a great idea to him, I was hesitant but its his little sister and he wanted to help her out, and us out too, but its a nightmare. She doesnt work and just has yelling meltdowns about everything. We have 8 more months on our lease and I want to find some sort of solution, I can only go to the dog park and pet stores so much.