In defense of Aisha, I didn't hear what she said to cover up the story, but she did make it clear that she no longer wanted it persued, but you guys wouldn't give up, your big noses just kept sticking into it, so maybe she thought she could placate you by making something up. Sure it was wrong, I would have told you to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. If your dog made a mistake, you wouldn't "rub his nose in it", so why do you do it to another human being. How about a little respect for other's privacy, understanding of someone's faults and being able to say to yourself "it's non of my business, I don't have to police everything that is going on, if she doesn't feel comfortable sharing, it's her perrogative. You're acting like nasty backstabbing adolescents. So, at the risk of everyone turning on ME, now, why can't you just bury the hatchet. Aisha might never come back because of this. That all, I made my speech. Good night.
I asked about the incident because I truly wanted to know what the outcome was. Then after I asked I realized all her posts on the subject had been deleted. Then I got Aishas explanation about Mommabayer and I understood why.
LaLaLa do exactually that and la la la your way outta this! If you think lying is good than go sit in a corner with Aisha. I personally HATE Liers and that is exactually what she is! She lied to me to Frosty and god only knows who else. I have every right to say as I please. She lied to me and the truth needs to be known. People were sitting here feeling bad for this chick cause she as "attacked by 2 guys and ripped her cloths off". I'm sorry but if your going to make up a lie do NOT make on up like that. If you have ever been in that siuation you would think the same! And PLEASE PLEASE **On hands and knees praying** that she doesn't come back! Liers are NOT welcome on TP!
Go back and READ, what happened was that I didn't understand why the poses were all so crazy and I asked her why. She responded and told me that she would email the story to me. She did, she sent it to me but seeing as the thread was already going down some other people (friends of mine) responded. She replied to the post telling us the "information" which wasn't true, nor did she have to post it. But she did. She requested I send it to Stormywinter which I did. I also sent it to GinaH because I thought that she was confused about the situation and was doing it to try to make sense out of it. It turns out tat she knew the truth all along and was pissed, as were a few of us that were lied to, because we had a right to be. If she hadn't emailed me to start with it would be nothing to me, it was a choice. So now it's unfair to call us names, which we could NEVER call you cause we'd get crap for it, when we are just trying to understand things better.
The smart thing to do would have been to simply say I really don't want mammbayer to find out it was me who turned her in. But instead a very huge lie was told to cover up the truth. How very sad. I would have preferred the truth.
No, I don't think lying is right, and your right, I didn't hear the story, but I think that if people would have let it die in the beginning instead of insisting she owed everyone an explanation, it wouldn't have come to that. Are you so self rightous that you think you've never made any mistakes? She probably regrets it but if people are going to throw it in her face and not be willing to forgive and forget, then what does that say about all of us? I am not about taking sides, I'm just about people trying to be sympathetic to the frailties of others.
I understand your anger at being lied to and I apologise for insulting everyone, as I wasn't aware of the whole situation. All of this, including my posts, should have been handled privately, not publicly and I hope if Aisha decides to apologise, you guys will be willing to let it go. People do things they regret and they shouldn't burn for it.
My only issuse is being lied to. There was no need for it. If she didn't want it public is should have never been brought public. When GinaH asked she should have simply said i'll email you. Comming up with a lie like that is uncalled for and odviously took some thought. Anywho! I posted some new pics of my babies. Check them out!
I would accept an apology and that would be the end of that. I just didnt enjoy being made to look like a crazy person on the thread I posted to Aisha. And being brought into someones pack of lies was a bit to much for me. She told others that I was speaking in code when I asked her those questions about the dogs and the school..and the funny thing is I had no idea what she was talking about until today when a little birdy whispered in my ear and told me Aishas tall tail.
I just didn't like to see the public bashing, but I do understand your feelings. I hope everyone can work it out. Personally, I would like to see this whole thread go away so you guys can settle your issues in private. As for me, I will go back to minding MY own business, as I have done in the past. This one just got to me. I have always liked Aisha as well as all of you guys, even when things got hairy, it was never this bad and it was just painful to watch. Good luck.
I see your point Lalayla. It should have been handled privately. But I am sort of glad it wasn't because I was sitting here feeling sorry for her for getting "attacked" and then being a part of the thread that made her feel the need to explain 'truthfully' her whole story to everyone....when the whole thing was a lie! I just don't get it. And of course I would accept an apology if she made one...I'm not that pigheaded to not accept that....but I will still wonder "Hmmmm?" in future.
stormywinter: I did post that lie to you addressed personally. I did it so that you would just be quiet and let it go. But no, you have to take everything personally and I really do not care anymore what you seem to think of me. You were never involved in any of this right from the beginning and just went and took everything so personally for what reason ? I do not even know who the h** you are. I really do not care what you think of me one way or another. I did not call any authorities at all on anyone. I spoke with only the school and the school board. GinaH: I am not sure if your question to me from the start was out of concern or just because you were trying to set me up. What ever the case you knew right from the start that I did not want to get into it. I said I would tell you and then edit so you would not think I was being a female dog! You and I have never seen eye to eye on this forum. I will not say that I am sorry for changing the dogs to men as in code words, what for? There are pitt bull owners who truly love their dogs and treat them like family members. Those of you who do this you know who you are. There are many people on this forum who I truly respect as pet owners. I never said the problem was soley because of the breed. If you can stop hiding behind your dogs you would of read that if they were german shepherds (which i own) i would also have a problem. You would of also read that these people throw these dogs at each other to encourage attacking each other on school property. You would of read that these people have told the kids to come into the pen and see what the dogs can do to them. You would of read that these people swear to little kids. GinaH, you seem to be on this forum soley for the purpose of defending the breed. Fine. all the power to you. Have you ever heard me bashing the breed? You have a huge chip on your shoulder. And if you really want to try to convince people that these dogs are sweet then try acting that way yourself. Why would you even show us the link that shows exactly how many places these dogs are banned? Hello? does not make your case sound good. I have always said that raising dogs (anydogs) is nurture vs nature. But you have to go out of your way every single time to make sure that you defend these dogs. If you truly believe that they are harmless the less you say would strenghen your case. I am so sorry that I was not on last night to give you all a piece of my mind then. For the rest of you, if someone does not want to go into details then just drop it. You people come on here to defend your pets and bash people who are nice and never say anything to anyone about your dogs. So, stormywinter: next time no one answers take a hint. I told that lie which by the way if you read it properly at the end i said that it was a load of c***, to show you that you do not have to know everything. Frosty girl: Yes I know I told you the truth and then I came here and said it was not it, but only to make my story all that much more interesting. Stormywinter: I hear that f rosty has her own web site furry something or other is it good? And you will not kick me off this forum unless you actually come over to my house pick up the computer and throw it out the window. I am a mother of 2 children who loves her kids and will protect them to no end. Boxer babe: yes the fence is going up. No I never called the media. (that was a scare tatic i used with the school) and yes my kids are at school but because of our concern as parents the kids are temperarily banned from that area of the school playground. Furthermore, This is not a clique. Never was. People who came on here to defend me, I thank you very much and am sorry that you were attacked by these people. THere is no reason for it. People should be able to say what they want. And if you do not like it or agree simply ignore it. Now you guys can make this into a 30 pg post for all I care. I will not come back on this thread to try to defend myself further. So go right ahead and play.
Aisha, Greatly put...I agree with you in most of that and I wish you all the luck with holding your ground as everyone takes a hit at you. I respect you for standing up for yourself in this. I do not wish to get in the middle of this, and I do not know all of the story either, but I will say that Aisha is one of the best people I have yet to meet on this forum. Bashing her will do you know good, she is pretty well liked around here and please: don't tell me that because of one little lie (which seems to have been told to get you guys to lay off of her and stop riding her ass) you are going to post an entirely new thread that will get 7-10 pages long of an arguement that means nothing. It's not like you guys have never lied for the sake of dropping a topic or standing up for your kids (or your pets).
"who tells so many untruths that they find it hard to keep their them straight?" Didnt I just get bashed for saying something to the affect, about ' People get found out' in another post? "Told ya so".............
Harley: I know I said that it would be my last post above but I want to expain something. I said in my post last night that it was all a load of crap. I told them because when they were reading it i could just see their jaws falling to the ground. and then at the end it was like haha. No I am not getting caught in a web of lies that I do not know which way is up. I know exactly where I am and where I stand on this. I have never been one to start trouble on this forum. I do not start fights nor do I get involved in them. The original post was not started by me this time. The first post was out of concern for my kids and if I have to be attacked for that then so be it. Most of the people here are so busy attacking one another for the wrong reasons. Yes their pets come first but give them a hug and a new chew toy and they are fine. My kids are the first and most important things in my life. If something ever would happen to them I would not have reason to go on living. Most of you are parents and should understand this concept. Excuse me for trying to be proactive in this whole school thing. If I came on and told you all that 10 kids got attacked then you would of said why did you not do something before. Cerrenity: Thank you for your support. I do not want you to get attacked by these people but I thank you for understanding and having a clear sense of right and wrong.