My husband gets alittle tired of the dogs sometimes but never enough to say, hey thats it. What he does say is please no more. So, I just came home with 6 very sweet Beagle/mix puppies that someone didn't want. I have found homes for all but two. So I am having a lot of fun. He is to but won't admit it to me. hehe. I also agree with what you are all saying. I am sorry if those of you think its weird to love an animal more than a human or even the same. Well, thats me. I agree with this statement. Thanks Noone will love you the way a dog will. Marriage MIGHT last forever a dog's love WILL last forever. No dogs, no me. Marriage or not.
OMG! i completely forgot that i posted this! i am surprised at the awesome response! my hubby is doing somewhat better towards the "kids". i know he enjoys them but at times he is very frustrated wth them too, the pups and the two cats, the cat hair, the animal sitting, not being able to just pick up and go like we use to. when my other dog passed away almost two years ago i swore myself that i would NEVER get another dog cause i did not want to hurt like that again. as time went on though i knew i had made a mistake and i so desperately wanted another one. we argued about it for weeks....he kept saying no! i kept whining and when i seen a dog/puppy on t.v. i whined even LOUDER!! he finally gave in and for Christmas gave me a voucher for another corgi....the one that passed away was a cogi/mix. we love the corgis as they remind us of our little alfie. i had alf for 16 years and was with him for 4 of those 16 years! so yeah he did not want to get one, he only mainly gave in to me to make me happy and to shut me up!!! so he has told me he was not a pet person, he never grew up with animals as i did and i just cant see myself NOT having some kind of animal forever!! so for now things are okay again....till they get on his nerves again, lol. but i wondered if there was other under lying issues with him too and the dogs were just a cover up... turned out there are other issues here...not just the puppies but the cat hair. the cats jump on the counters to escape the pups and they never did that before! so that is another added problem....we'll work through it and if we cant work through other things then the pups are mine anyways and we will leave, lol...hopefully not though.
No I havent !!! But I would leave my boyfriend if he tried to make me get rid of my pet. I already made the mistake once of choosing my EX boyfriend over my pup Kya. Well I gave her back to the girl I bought her from. Thought she would take care of her, because her other dogs were took care of. I was wrong. I went to see how she was doing cause I had heard She was looking poor. And to get her back but it was to late, she had passed. I tried to make the best decision I could . We were moving and he wouldnt look for a place with a yard so I gave my lil girl up. And she paid the price for my stupid decision. Well this time I told my man that its me and my dog. Kiyahna aint going nowhere, I learned from my past mistake. He can go if he dont like it. Thats just how it is. I wont have a man who doesnt like animals. Kiyahna http://www.dogster.com/?77842 Kya http://www.dogster.com/?78135
Thanks. Yea now I do know and that will not ever happen again. Kiyahna is my baby. Anywhere I go she goes. And I dont know how anyone can be afraid of these faces either. Kiyahna is so sweet. She loves attention, and its so funny because if she doesnt get ALL the attention she isnt a happy pup. She will actually pull our rottie mix(over 100 lbs) by the coller if I am playing with him. She pulls him away from me. It is so funny to see a 60 pound pup pull a rott. and She loves to please. I need to get some new pics up because she has grown a whole lot since those pics. Will do that soon!! Kiyahna http://www.dogster.com/?77842 Kya http://www.dogster.com/?78135
It is so true what you guys are saying about knowing who you are going to marry. No one should have to give something up that means the world to them. I was talking to this guy who my husband knows. He is young probably 25 and has a girl friend who is older around 30 and he told me that she does not want kids ever! I told him if he would consider this? he said he is not sure. I told him straight out that yes he is still young but if he sees kids in the future then to leave her as this issue will become huge one day and divorce will happen or someone will give in to the other and regret and resent for the rest of their lives. Would I ever leave my husband for Aisha? No! because he would never tell me to give her up. Or to choose. Would I leave him for the kids? Yes! if he was abusing them or a jerk and he could not fix it then yes I would have to put them first. Animals and children do not have much say as to where they are or going so we have to be their voices! All you you who have left their other half because of their kids safety GOOD FOR YOU!