Um.. if you are so concerned, why the h*ll would you post those pictures on a DOG BOARD where 13 year olds visit? You should post it on a picket sign and stand outside a candy store!
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Yeah... if he is not getting any attention,it will certainly make the behavior worse.
That being said, how long and what methods have you tried to train him?
Have you ever trained him to NOT eat pacifiers? Or to listen to you, even? I a...

Of course she is scared, that is normal, and probably nothing to be worried about.
If she has never seen the "real world" or people, or a family, then just be slow with her.

First of all, crate train her. This will help you TONS wi...

OBAMA!

And, his mother is from Kansas, father from Kenya.
In case anyone needed that cleared up for them before they could vote for someone who is "not American."

Don't buy from them. If they breed many kinds, they are no good. You can find a mini poodle from a reputable breeder. Look at the AKC site.
Have you considered rescuing from a local shelter?

Don't give him the option of going upstairs. He does not get the free run of the house until he is trustworthy. It only makes it worse.
Be sure to clean that spot with an enzymatic cleaner so he doesn't smell his urine spots.

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Have you attended obedience training with the pup? This helps immensely, as you learn how to train the dog.

keep the dogs in the yard?

it wasn't just freaking out from being lifted off the ground?

Time for a new insurance company.