I understand what you are saying Agent. It's a lot of work and stress.
But I would prefer the forum community to keep it's very strict stand on this issue. Chances are most people who come for advice here on purchasing their new puppy will...
Actually you really don't know a puppy's temperament until it grows up. I think a rescue dog is the best option. One that have been fostered in a house with children and proven itself be a obedient dog.