I AM SORRY FOR PUTTING CAPS! But... I have been reading about the bashing, the cruel words, BUT... You know what when the chips are down the people on here are there for you!
I was reading the post "trying to make sense of your post, learn to spell" and other posts that have not only bashed but... Was down right mean!
You know what, everytime I needed advise the people on this forum have always responded!
This was a really bad weekend for me, if you read HEARTBROKEN, you will know why. BUT...
I think at one time or another we have may have all thought the fighting, arguing etc. isin't worth it!! I have thought of leaving myself a few times. I try and stay out of the topics that are what I consider problems. Sometimes I cant help myself, what is it Ron white says " I have the right to remain silent, just not the ability" Sometimes I feel the same way and respond when I should keep my mouth shut BUT... One thing I can say about this forum the good people, the true people on here that AREN'T TROUBLE MAKERS!, are always there for you!
This was a very upsetting weekend for me!! To lose my little girl, was heartbreaking! But I will never forget the people that responded to try and make this somewhat better!
It was much appreciated! and also will never be forgotten! Life is too short. Lets keep the good ones on here and say goodbye to the rest. Just my Opinion!
This is a good forum, with a lot of good information, who cares if sometimes we may not always use proper grammer or if our I's aren't dotted. We also have kids on here and people that don't live in our country. BUT... The result is the same stick up for one another, we may not always agree and thats okay but be respectful, everyone is different, The end result will always be the same we will have a forum that we can ALL be proud of!
Very well said..............Amen . This is a very bad day for you and as time passes it will become a little more easier.I think it is good that your talking a little about it because that really helps with the greiving process.Just take comfort that your little one loved you and still does and he would want you to be happy,till you both meet again. May God bless you both
***Edited By: sandycane on 1/29/2006 9:37:35 PM*** Reason: add on
I ditto that majorlover! I plan to only respond to members that respect everybody and are uderstanding that we all want to have/be friends.
Yesterday was embaressing (to be called ot of my name like that) and uncomfortable for me (mud slinging). Two emotions I've never had to endure HERE before. I'd love to put this weekend behind all of us.
Majorlover, chin up too! It'll hurt a little less each day.
We may all have different ideas, opinions and ways of life, but when push comes to shove.....the majority of us come together for support. We all have our turns with bad days, emotional times (as with your loss Majorlover) we always manage to bond to help each other through the tough times.
By the way, I didnt get to post on the other thread...I am so deply sorry for your loss....I know it was tough, I take things very hard myself and cannot function for awhile either. You gave her alot of love when she was here and I know that gave her comfort.
Very well said Major.I have not been on lately and missed your post.Im sorry.I also didnt not even read the trolls post.Dont leave...I do know how you feel and that is why I will take "breaks" Great post!!
cockerlover, I'm not going to leave. Most of the people on here are very good people. I just meant at times I can see why people want to leave! I probably miss a lot not being in the chat room, BUT... I still feel this is a great sight with good people! MOST of the time! LOl
Very well put. Some people come on here just to cause trouble or to say how bad it is. I don't have time for that and I will not beg them to give it a try. There are lots of great people here and I think I have been offended by something said to me once and that person is not here any more.
If you are positive and don't look for trouble, you don't generally get it.
Glad you are around and are happy with this site. Nice to have the positive people sticking around.
I just read about your loss and am so sorry. Keep yourself busy. That helps some. And go ahead and cry.
I totally agree with you major. There are some great and wonderful people here and they are always willing to help. Some of the people on this forum have become some of my friends and we exchange emails on a regular basis and I miss them here but I left for a while due to the crap that comes with the good.
There are good people on here! I think at times we just get a few bad ones. BUT... Thats okay we know after awhile who is who, we just need to remember to give the new members the same respect we wanted when we joined! Majorlover